I wonder why it has to come to the death of a child to actually affect change. Trayvon Martin was essentially still a child on his way to manhood when he was shot dead by George Zimmerman as he was returning to his father's house in a gated community in Florida. George Zimmerman seems to have invoked the "Stand Your Ground" law inferring that this crime was committed in self defense. How can you claim self defense when you are the stalker, when you are following this young man on the way home from the store with a pack of Skittles, a can of ice tea? What ground was George standing? Why did Zimmerman continue to follow Trayvon against the instructions of the 911 operator who clearly told Zimmerman to not pursue Travyon?
Today was Mother's Day. I have all of my children, all in good health, hopefully on the way to successful, happy and productive lives. Trayvon's mother has demonstrated strength and character I know very well that I certainly incapable of demonstrating under any circumstance. While I was surrounded by my children, Sybrina Fulton was missing her son.
My father died at the age of 73 and his mother grieved him as if he were her six year old son. It is against the natural order of life which makes it unbearable to survive one's child. No parent should ever have to witness the death of the child. My heart goes out to Ms. Fulton. I cannot even begin to comprehend her pain and sense of loss.
What compounds the tragedy in this case, it the political circus which has flowed from Trayvon Martin's death. The attempt to justify the murder of this young man is shameful. From accusations of drug use, sporatic school attendence, the victim's Facebook postings and Twitter tweets to in someway try to give justification to an unjustifiable act. George Zimmerman didn't know anything about Trayvon Martin and to sully the victim's character in order to legalize the murder of a young, unarmed teenager is obscene.
Trayvon Martin was a teenager. He was just beginning to make his way in the world. He, I am sure, made mistakes, challenged his parents, and did what he was supposed to do, which is to be a teenager. It is not unlike my children, my friend's children and most teenagers who are still trying to figure it out.
So today on Mother's Day, while I look at my sleeping children, safe in their beds, I cannot help but wonder how Sabryina Fulton was able to get through the day. I think of the horrible weight she must carry, knowing she will not see her child again. While reporters and politicians attempt to demonize the victim, I want them to remember the following. Trayvon Martin did not die from an illness. Travyon Martin did not die in an accident. Trayvon Martin died simply from being a young, black male walking through an unfamiliar community by a wannabe cop who applied racial profiling to determine the Trayvon was a risk to the community. To attempt to justify his shooting through character assassination of the victim is not only shameful, but absolutely disguting.